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Do Women Have Something to Hide?



Question:

Why does Judaism tell women to keep their bodies covered? Is there something shameful or evil about a woman's body? If men can't control their urges, then it's their problem, not women's. Why should a woman have to hide herself just so others shouldn't be tempted?

Answer:

You are assuming that the only reason for modest dress is to avoid temptation. While this may be the case in other religions, for Judaism this is not true. The Jewish way of modest dress is not merely about how other people view women, but more about how women view themselves.

Covering something doesn't always mean being ashamed of it. Have you ever noticed how we treat a Torah scroll? We never leave it lying around open. It is hidden behind many layers. The Torah is kept inside a synagogue, in the Ark, behind a curtain, wrapped in a mantle, held tightly closed with a belt. It is only ever taken out when it is to be used for its holy purpose, to be read during the prayer service. For those special times we carefully draw the curtain, open the doors of the ark, bring out the Torah, uncover it and unwrap it. As soon as we have finished we immediately wrap it up again and put it away.

Why do we do all this? Why do we go to such trouble to conceal the Torah? Are we ashamed of it? Is there something to hide? Is there something ugly about the Torah?

Of course not. The opposite is true.

Because the Torah is our holiest object, because it is so sacred and special and precious, we never leave it exposed unnecessarily. We keep it under wraps because we don't want to treat it lightly, we don't want to become too casual with it. Were the Torah to be always open and visible, it may become too familiar, and its sanctity minimized. By keeping it away from sight and only bringing it out for the appropriate times, we maintain our reverence and respect for the Torah.

The same is with our bodies. The body is the holy creation of G‑d. It is the sacred house of the soul. The way we maintain our respect for the body is by keeping it covered. Not because it is shameful, but because it is so beautiful and precious.

This is true for men's bodies too, and laws of modest dress apply to them as well. But it is even more so for women. The feminine body has a beauty and a power that far surpasses the masculine. The Kabbalists teach that a woman's body has a deeper beauty because her soul comes from a higher place. For this reason her body must be kept discreetly covered.

In a world where the woman's body has been reduced to a cheap advertising gimmick, we need no proof for the truth of this wisdom. Where all is exposed, nothing is sacred. But that which is truly precious to us, we keep under wraps.


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Rabbi Aron Moss teaches Kabbalah, Talmud and practical Judaism in Sydney, Australia.

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Posted: Oct 28, 2008
not every man appreciates the innundation
Not every man appreciates the innundation everywhere with these images. How do you know your husband would actually prefer such "objects" being shown to him over your profound connection/bond?

We have the custom to wish/sing to the new groom and bride that they should rejoice "like in Gan Eden from before"? Why?

Because in Gan Eden, only 2 people existed. Adam and the other half of his soul, Chava. That is the blessing we wish to them. That even if they unfortunately have to see others around them, as far as they are concerned, there is only them together.

Posted By Yisrael Moshe, Denver, CO

Posted: Sep 8, 2008
A husband who loves you for who you are and what you have inside is wonderful.

But with so many other women walking around showing so much skin, how do you compete? I want to be loved for who I am but I also want to feel like he thinks I am the most beautiful woman. (not that I want him looking for comparison....)

We live in a very immodest world. Just a few days ago I walked into a store and saw a 20ish young woman leaning over to look at something on a lower shelf. Her pants didn't even cover her. Not to mention the movies. Saw one with a PG-13 rating that had a room full of barely dressed women dancing in a VERY suggestive way. And who can forget the magazines at grocery store check out lines....

The list goes on and on and on.

How can a woman who dresses modestly be the most beautiful to the man she is with when we are surrounded by this kind of behavior?
Posted By Anonymous

Posted: Sep 2, 2008
i heard a lecture which i would like to share: lets say your going to the white house to meet the president and going to be on national tv. lets say you got an award for saving someones life. So do you want people to look at you and see your body or realize something deaper like your mind. would an employer who is looking for a smart person want you to show up undressed? so why is it ok for anyone else to respect you when it is? if it wasn't so common to be half naked all the time then people wouldn't do it. personally when i see young girls walking down the street and see men wisteling at them.. i dont think they care about whats inside their heads. wouldn't you want a husband who love you for you and not that your pretty?

Posted By chana



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